Is Selena Gomez singing about Justin Bieber on her new album?
That’s what many fans are wondering following the release of I Said I Love You First, her collaborative project with fiancé Benny Blanco. One track in particular, “You Said You Were Sorry,” sparked speculation the “Look at Her Now” singer was addressing her ex, whom she dated on and off between 2010 and 2018.
“Don’t think about you / Happy without you,” Selena sings on the track. “More now than I ever was.”
During the chorus, the 32-year-old describes an emotional reunion with an ex who goes unnamed—and while she pointed out that the exchange was merely a fantasy, that seemed to be good for her.
“But I had a dream / You said you were sorry, said you were sorry / Sorry for everything / That you put on me, that you put on me,” Selena sings. “Our eyes were bawling rain / We finally both forgave ya / I had a dream, that’s all it was / Yeah, that was enough for me.”
Before the album hit streaming services March 21, the “Good for You” singer seemed to anticipate a dissection of her romantic history with Justin—who wed Hailey Bieber in 2018 before they welcomed son Jack, 6 months, in August—though she proactively denied drawing inspiration from their relationship.
“I would like to say most of this album has nothing to do with what everyone may go to,” she told Spotify in a video published March 19. “And I think it’s important for me to say that because I’ve evolved so much, and I have experienced life with new people. I’ve had to go through transitions with friends and lose people in my life and gain new people, and I’ve had a whole new life forever.”
And while many songs on the album are explorations of Selena’s emotions, others—such as “Sunset Blvd” and “Cowboy”—showcase her sultry side.
“I don’t like to share it a lot, but I’m a very sensual person,” she continued. “I love love and sometimes I put that into words and I can feel sexy, and I love that feeling.”
But while her new music may have fans going back to her first high-profile romance, when it comes to where her love life stands these days, she’s looking ahead at building a life with Benny.
Keep reading for a look at Selena and Benny’s romance.
Blossoming Romance
Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco began dating in July 2023, around Selena’s birthday, Benny said on the Howard Stern Show in May 2024.
But they only began to spark romance rumors in late 2023. That December, Selena confirmed the speculation, commenting on a fan page’s Instagram post, regarding Benny, “He is my absolute everything in my heart.”
She continued, “Why has he been the best thing that’s ever happened to me. He’s still better than anyone I’ve ever been with.”
The Rare Beauty founder also shared a photo on her Instagram Story of her leaning her head on what looked to be Benny’s chest.
With This Ring…
Selena later shared this pic on her Instagram Stories, which shows her wearing a bejeweled “B” ring.
That Kiss
…including a pic of the two kissing.
Quality Time
Also in December 2023, Selena shared several photos of herself hanging out in New York City with Benny and their friends.i
Appreciating Art
Two days after Christmas 2023, Selena shared new pics of the couple at what appeared to be an art exhibit.
PDA Alert
Selena posted this pic of herself and Benny one day before New Year’s Eve 2023.
Slam Dunk Date Night
The pair attended the Los Angeles Lakers’ home game against the Miami Heat in January 2024.
Can’t Keep Their Hands to Themselves
The couple packed on PDA in this February 2024 snapshot.
Happy Birthday Benny
Selena shared a tribute to her boyfriend on his 36th birthday in March 2024.
Birthday Tribute
“Happy birthday baby!” Selena wrote on her Instagram. “Your emotional endurance, positive disposition, unbelievable talent (that blows me away), undeniable humor and loving, kind heart absolutely kill me. I love you @itsbennyblanco.”
PDA Alert
Selena included this kissing pic in her birthday tribute to Benny.
Naughty PDA Alert
…and these couple’s pics as well.
Open Book
Selena celebrated the release of Benny’s Open Wide in April 2024, captioning photos of the pair enjoying a cake shaped like his cookbook, “So proud.”
Happy Fourth of July
Selena shared this pic of the two on Independence Day 2024.
Who Said “I Love You” First?
In July 2024, just ahead of their first dating anniversary, the two answered a viral “Who’s Most Likely To” TikTok challenge, during which they were asked who was the first to say “I love you” to the other person. The answer? Selena.
Getting Cozy
Selena and Benny cuddled up in cute photos in July 2024 following her 32nd birthday.
Night Adventures
The actress captioned a gallery of summer photos, “Thank you for sharing your life with me today and everyday.”
Beach Babes
The musicians soaked up the sun together on lounge chairs.
Dinner Date
Selena shared a silly pic of the two enjoying a bite.
Summer of Love
They’re just loving each other like a love song, baby.
Incognito
The two were bundled up with masks on during one of their outings.
Pucker Up!
In another snap, Selena wore Benny’s beanie as they pursed their lips for the camera.
Not Single Soon
The “Eastside” artist gave Selena a kiss on the cheek in a sweet summer snap in July 2024.
Good for You
He wrapped his arms around her in another adorable Instagram pic.
She Said Yes!
“Forever begins now,” Selena wrote in December 2024, while revealing their engagement. Benny quipped in the comments, “hey wait… that’s my wife.”
Golden Couple
The couple enjoyed a date night at the 2025 Golden Globes.
Red Carpet Debut
Benny and Selena made their first joint red carpet appearance at the 2025 Emmys.
Tying the Knot
The pair got married in Santa Barbara, Calif., on Sept. 27, 2025, with guests including Taylor Swift, Martin Short, Steve Martin and Paul Rudd.
