There’s no crying in baseball, but the deep love Tom Hanks has for his family may make you shed a tear or two.
Married to fellow actor Rita Wilson since 1988, the Oscar winner and his bride share kids Chet Hanks, 34, and Truman Hanks, 29. Tom is also dad to son Colin Hanks, 47, and daughter E.A. Hanks (whose initials stand for Elizabeth Ann), 42, from his previous marriage to the late Susan Dillingham (otherwise known by her stage name Samantha Lewes)
And while his children have pursued public-facing careers (all three of his sons have followed in his famous footsteps by working in the movie-making industry), much of their life growing up has been kept pretty private.
“I don’t parade my family out for display,” Tom said in a 2001 interview with Oprah Winfrey, “which is the way it will stay.”
Because while the Saving Private Ryan star has spent decades in front of the camera, he also cherishes the times he enjoys with his loved ones away from the spotlight.
“Early on when they’re little kids, you just try to just be a guy who drives the carpool and picks them up after school and is around as much as possible,” Tom explained on a 2020 episode of the In Depth with Graham Bensinger podcast. “It’s not easy. You don’t win all the time. You can’t avoid some aspects of being in the public eye when you’d rather not be. But, if you work at it, if you don’t play into it too much, if you don’t make it seem more important than it is, you can do OK for long enough.”
But recently, fans have learned more about the Hanks family through E.A’s book The 10: A Memoir of Family and the Open Road. Along with writing about paging through her mother’s diary and retracing the road trip they took when she was a teen, the author looked back at her childhood following her parents’ divorce in 1985.
In an excerpt of The 10 published by People, E.A. detailed the time father had to “track” her and brother Colin down after their mother, who had primary custody, moved them from L.A. to Sacramento without telling him. And that wasn’t the only dirty laundry she shared.
“As the years went on, the backyard became so full of dog s–t that you couldn’t walk around it, the house stank of smoke,” E.A. described in the book. “The fridge was bare or full of expired food more often than not, and my mother spent more and more time in her big four-poster bed, poring over the Bible.”
During one particularly bad night, she added, her mother’s “emotional violence became physical violence, and in the aftermath I moved to Los Angeles, right smack in the middle of the seventh grade. My custody arrangement basically switched — now I lived in L.A. and visited Sacramento on the weekends and in the summer.”
As she shares more about her childhood in the book (out April 8), we’re telling the story of the Hanks family.
Tom Hanks
While the world knows Tom Hanks as an Oscar-winning actor, to his four kids Colin Hanks, E.A. Hanks, Chet Hanks and Truman Hanks, he’s dad.
“Somewhere along the line, I figured out, the only thing really, I think, eventually a parent can do is say I love you, there’s nothing you can do wrong, you cannot hurt my feelings, I hope you will forgive me on occasion, and what do you need me to do?” the Forrest Gump star told The New York Times in 2019. “You offer up that to them. I will do anything I can possibly do in order to keep you safe. That’s it. Offer that up and then just love them.”
And for Tom, who married Rita Wilson in 1988, part of keeping his children safe is protecting their privacy.
“We were always able to separate the personal responsibilities from the private ones,” he said on a 2020 episode of In Depth with Graham Bensinger. “There are times you have to be in public and there are times when you shouldn’t be in public. When the kids were growing up, we protected that very, very specifically.”
Susan Dillingham (a.k.a. Samantha Lewes)
Before Tom was married to Rita, he met wife Susan Dillingham (who acted in small roles as Samantha Lewes) when they were studying at Sacramento State.
The two were already parents to son Colin, born in 1977, when they wed in 1980 and went on to welcome daughter E.A. (her initials stand for Elizabeth Ann) in 1982.
But three years later, Tom and Susan split.
It was a “horribly painful time, fraught with emotion and bad feelings and the failures that you go, ‘Oh, I couldn’t be a worse father, and I couldn’t be a worse human being,'” the Big alum recalled on a 2020 episode of In Depth With Graham Bensinger. “I remember all those feelings as though I had cursed innocent beings with my own failings.”
Tom said he attended therapy and leaned on those he could confide in during that time.
“Sometimes it’s a priest at the church that you trust. Sometimes, it’s a really good friend,” he continued. “I’ve had versions of all those things that have been the type of people that have said, ‘You know, you’re not a horrible person, and this will pass. You just gotta have a little bit of faith and goodness that is inside yourself.'”
Susan died in 2002 after a battle with cancer.
Rita Wilson
Tom and Rita first met in 1981 when she made an appearance on his show Bosom Buddies, and they later costarred in the 1985 film Volunteers.
“Rita and I just looked at each other and—kaboing—that was that,” Tom once toldGQ, per People, about their connection on Volunteers. “I asked Rita if it was the real thing for her, and it just couldn’t be denied.”
The actor and the singer wed in 1988. And they’re not only partners in life but also in work, with them appearing together in films like That Thing You Do! and Sleepless in Seattle and producing movies like My Big Fat Greek Wedding and A Man Called Otto.
Through life’s highs and lows—including her 2015 breast cancer battle—Tom and Rita have been by each other’s sides. And the actress, who celebrated 10 years of being cancer-free in March 2025, says they continue to put in the work to make their love burn bright.
“I think that any long-term relationship, if you are lucky enough to fall in love and have that spark ignite, it’s kind of a responsibility for both people in the relationship to keep that spark going and to keep that flame going,” she said in a 2019 interview with Access Hollywood. “Because over the years, over time, you’re gonna have ups and downs. It’s not going to be all fabulous every second of the day. So, to me, it’s that awareness of if you’ve got that, it always happens.”
Colin Hanks
Colin Hanks is Tom’s oldest son from his previous marriage to Susan. And just like his dad, he fell in love with acting at an early age.
“To be honest, it really just came down to it was the most fun,” Colin said on a 2022 episode of Conan O’Brien Needs a Friend. “Acting was the thing I was drawn to the most. And when there was the least amount of pressure on me to enjoy it, that’s when I enjoyed it the most.”
Although, he admits there was a time when he turned away from acting because, given his famous father, people kept telling him, “Of course, that’s what you’re going to do.” However, Colin says it was his dad’s words of wisdom that got him back on that path.
“This is the one thing I will credit the old man with is he said, ‘Look, you have to want to do this. If you don’t really want this, then come up with something else. Because you will be miserable if this is not something that you truly are passionate about,'” he continued. “It was the best advice I could have gotten at the best time.”
Colin went on to star in many movies and TV shows, including Life in Pieces, Roswell, Orange County, King Kong, The House Bunny, and Untraceable. He’s also done voiceover work for animated projects like Talking Tom and Friends
Colin is married to Samantha Bryant and is dad to daughters Olivia and Charlotte.
E.A. Hanks
E.A. Hanks is Tom’s only daughter from his previous marriage to Susan.
And while her siblings caught the filmmaking bug, she pursued a different career path.
Previously a writer for Vanity Fair, E.A. has contributed to outlets like TIME, The Guardian and The New York Times. She’s also an author, with her book The 10: A Memoir of Family and the Open Road dropping April 8, 2025.
According to a description from publisher Simon & Schuster, the book details E.A.’s journey as she “follows the same route as a long-ago road trip with her mother in an attempt to better understand the complicated woman who gave her life.”
In a book excerpt shared by People, E.A. looks back at the time following her parents’ split in which Susan had custody of her and Colin while Tom saw the kids on the weekends. But one day, she continued, her mom moved them from L.A. to Sacramento without giving their dad a heads-up.
“My dad came to pick us up from school and we’re not there,” E.A wrote. “And it turns out we haven’t been there for two weeks and he has to track us down.”
In the book, E.A. also shared her experience of living with her mom, writing the backyard was “full of dog s–t,” “the house stank of smoke,” and the “fridge was bare or full of expired food.”
“One night, her emotional violence became physical violence,” E.A. wrote, “and in the aftermath I moved to Los Angeles, right smack in the middle of the seventh grade.”
Chet Hanks
Chet Hanks, born in August 1990, is Tom and Rita’s oldest son and has inherited their passion of acting.
Over the years, he’s appeared in TV shows like Running Point, Your Honor, Empire and Shameless as well as in movies like Dead Wrong, Fantastic Four and his father’s films Larry Crowne and Greyhound.
“My dad’s an actor. My older brother’s an actor. My mom. This was the family business,” he told Bustle in March 2025, “so I [knew] that was something I would go into at some point.”
Chet shares his mother’s love of music, too. In addition to releasing a few rap tracks, he’s part of the country music duo Something Out West. And in March 2025, they dropped a Forrest Gump-themed music video for their song “You Better Run” featuring Tom.
A cast member on the 2024 reality show The Surreal Life: Villa of Secrets, Chet has also made headlines for some controversial moments, including his decision to put on a Jamaican Patois accent at the 2020 Golden Globes and coin the phrase “white boy summer” the following year.
More recently, Chet has remained focused on his work, family (he shares daughter Michaiah with ex Tiffany Miles) and sobriety. And he’s thankful his parents have been there for him throughout his journey.
“They’ve always have been super supportive of me,” Chet said on a March 2025 episode of The Drew Barrymore Show, noting he’s three years sober, “and I don’t take it for granted.”
Truman Hanks
Born in December 1995, Truman Hanks is the youngest of the Hanks kids.
And like his older brothers, he’s following in dad Tom and mom Rita’s famous footsteps by entering the movie-making business. Although, his father notes Truman prefers being behind the camera.
“He’s been working with cameras and lenses and has been developing his own films since he was in high school,” the Cast Away star said on a 2023 episode of SiriusXM’s The Jess Cagle Show, later adding, “All my kids are Renaissance creatures. But he actually is a member of the Local 600, which is the camera union here in New York. So he works on films already in the camera department, and he’s actually shot his own stuff. He’s actually been a cinematographer already, director of photography.”
Truman has dabbled in acting as well, playing the younger version of his dad’s titular character in the 2022 film A Man Called Otto.
“His curse or blessing, you decide,” noted Tom, “is that he and I resemble each other almost completely at the age of 26.”
In addition to working in film, Truman is a mathematics major, who received his degree from Stanford University.
