Nice to meet you, where you been? Can you show me football things?
At least that’s how we’d like to imagine that first 2023 encounter between newly engaged Travis Kelce and Taylor Swift went down. What we do know—thanks to the musician’s marathon Aug. 13 appearance on Travis and brother Jason Kelce‘s New Heights podcast—is that it included a rare fumble on the part of the 14-time Grammy winner.
Inquiring about when Travis’ Kansas City Chiefs bested Jason’s Philadelphia Eagles in the Super Bowl months earlier, “I legitimately asked him what it was like when the Chiefs played the Eagles in the Super Bowl and he looked across the field across the line of scrimmage and saw his brother,” Taylor revealed, admitting she was unaware that her tight end boyfriend would never face off against an opposing team’s offensive line.
“I know now what an insane question that was,” she acknowledged. “He was like, ‘Actually, I’m on the offense and my brother’s on the offense, and I’m only on the field at the same time as the defense.’ I thought everyone was on the field at the same time.”
She has since learned the Xs and Os involved in her, ahem, fiancé’s line of work, but she remains grateful, as she put it to Travis, that he was “not judgemental about the fact that I knew nothing about the world.”
Consider it his second winning play of their now-two-year romance, the most recent, of course, coming when he made sure August didn’t slip away without him proposing to Taylor in a dreamy garden setting.
As they wrote in a joint Aug. 26 Instagram post, “Your English teacher and your gym teacher are getting married.”
While it may seem obvious now that all along there was some invisible string tying the three-time Super Bowl champ to the 14-time Grammy winner, their romance began with quite the Hail Mary pass.
The Catching Kelce alum had been hoping to snag the musician’s attention when she brought her Eras Tour to Kansas City in July 2023 by gifting her a Swiftie-style friendship bracelet with his number.
Unfortunately, he didn’t game plan for her pre-show ritual.
“I was disappointed that she doesn’t talk before or after her shows because she has to save her voice for the 44 songs that she sings,” he explained to Jason weeks later on New Heights. “So I was a little butt-hurt I didn’t get to hand her one of the bracelets I made for her.”
Ultimately, though, he still scored, Taylor telling TIME when the magazine named her Person of the Year that she found the move to be “metal as hell,” noting, “we started hanging out right after that.”
By the time she claimed a spot alongside mom Donna Kelce in his suiteat Arrowhead Stadiumthat September, the guy on the Chiefs was already coming straight home to her.
“We actually had a significant amount of time that no one knew, which I’m grateful for, because we got to get to know each other,” Taylor explained to TIME. “We would never be psychotic enough to hard launch a first date.”
Two years—and a handful of Instagram official posts—later, they’ve written quite the love story.
While Taylor has learned to expertly shake off the criticism over her ongoing presence at Travis’ games—”I have no awareness of if I’m being shown too much and pissing off a few dads, Brads, and Chads,” she quipped to TIME—he’s been on the metaphorical sidelines for 14 of her Eras shows, and even suited up for a cameo at her June 2024 date in London.
He later shared his awe over the “f–k ton” of shows Taylor played during her 21-month, $2.2 billion-grossing cultural phenomenon, marveling on New Heights in December, “It’s insane. Absolutely insane. Over 10 million people in the stands over the course of it, like cumulatively. It’s pretty crazy.”
And while “she will never tell anyone that she is an athlete,” Travis noted in his September GQ cover, “I’ve seen what she goes through. I’ve seen the amount of work that she puts on her body, and it’s mind-blowing.”
In the years since she began cheering on the boy on the football team, she’s also immersed herself in all things gridiron.
“She is the most engulfed fan now,” Travis raved to GQ. “She knows what the injury reports look like. She understands what special situations are, third and short—all these things because she just naturally loves to hear about my job.”
He, in turn, gets “to be the plus one,” the athlete acknowledged. “I get to go and be that fan. Because I am a fan. I’m a fan of music. I’m a fan of art. And it’s so cool that I get to experience her being that pluse one for me on the football field….I feel that same enjoyment every time she comes to my shows.”
This is their place, they make the rules. And one of the big ones is to always be each other’s cheerleader.
As she put it to TIME, “When you say a relationship is public, that means I’m going to see him do what he loves, we’re showing up for each other, other people are there and we don’t care.”
Because, she continued, “The opposite of that is you have to go to an extreme amount of effort to make sure no one knows that you’re seeing someone. And we’re just proud of each other.”
That includes those moments where they’re not in front of a packed stadium.
“When there is not a camera on us, we’re just two people that are in love,” he explained to GQ. “It can be perceived as something else because of how much it is talked about and how much we are tracked whenever we do go out, but I would say that it’s as normal of….It happened very organically.”
She’s loved him three summers now, honey, and now she’s going to get ’em all.
“We are two fun-loving people who have the morals to appreciate everyone for who they are,” Travis marveled of their love story. “We share all those values. It kind of just took the f–k off.”
Kick off the engagement celebrations by looking back at all the reasons they make for perfect teammates.
No. 1: He’s a Swiftie
Long before Taylor Swift‘s attendance at the Kansas City Chief’s Sept. 24, 2023 game became one of the definitive pop culture moments of the year, Travis Kelce was an admirer of the Grammy winner.
The star tight end’s interest in Taylor was first revealed by one of his teammates in a TikTok video posted by the Chiefs in August 2023 (which, in hindsight, was when the pair were secretly dating).
Before Travis could answer the prompt of who his celebrity crush was, wide receiver Marquez Valdes-Scantling spilled, “Taylor Swift!”
Travis smiled at the camera before holding his finger up to his mustache, saying, “Alright now!”
Plus, Travis was just one of many celebs to attend Taylor’s record-breaking Eras Tour even before the now-engaged duo kicked off their romance. But more on that enchanting moment in a bit…
No. 2: He’s Not Her Usual Type (on Paper)
While he does have that daydream look in his eyes (especially when he sees Taylor on the big-screen at one of his games), Travis stands out a bit when you look back at Taylor’s dating history.
She is typically attracted to creative types, including actors (Joe Alwyn, Jake Gyllenhaal, Taylor Lautner and Tom Hiddleston) and musicians (Calvin Harris, John Mayer, Harry Styles and, most recently, Matty Healy).
But perhaps that’s why her romance with the lighthearted and cheeky athlete—who signed an updated two-year deal with the Chiefs worth $34.25 million in 2024—feels like such a refreshing option for Taylor after her six-year uber-private relationship with Joe came to an end in April 2023.
No. 3: He Publicly Pursued Her
Looks like the 10-time Pro Bowler’s wishes came true after he all but manifested his romance with the superstar through sheer will, determination and declarations of infatuation.
Travis publicly aired his failed attempt to shoot his shot and talk to Taylor when he attended the Kansas City stop on her Eras Tour July 7, 2023. As it turns out, he had a special gift for her: A friendship bracelet bearing his “number” that he hoped to give Taylor. (He wouldn’t definitively say if it was his jersey number or phone number.)
Despite his claim that he was “disappointed” he failed to meet her after the concert, Taylor confirmed to TIME in December 2023 that she belatedly caught his podcast pass.
“Travis very adorably put me on blast on his podcast, which I thought was metal as hell,” she recalled. “We started hanging out right after that. So we actually had a significant amount of time that no one knew, which I’m grateful for, because we got to get to know each other.”
So, that whole theory about the Sept. 24 game being their first official hang? As Taylor clarified to TIME, “We would never be psychotic enough to hard launch a first date.”
No. 4: She Isn’t In Hiding
Since dating Travis, Taylor has been seen in public more frequently, including outings with friends in NYC and jubilant appearances at award shows, like the 2023 MTV VMAs and the 2024 Grammys.
But her most talked-about appearance? Sitting in Travis’ suite at the Chief’s Sept. 24, 2023 home game against the Chicago Bears.
Rather than shy away from the attention, Taylor cheered and screamed “Let’s f–king go!” when Travis scored a touchdown. Like the public, even Travis admitted he was caught off-guard by Taylor accepting his invite.
“Shoutout to Taylor for pulling up, that was pretty ballsy,” Travis said days later on his New Heights podcast. “I just thought it was awesome how everyone in the suite had nothing but great things to say about her, the friends and family.”
“She looked amazing,” he added. ” It was definitely a game I will remember, that’s for damn sure.”
Since then, Taylor and Travis have been photographed hand-in-hand on dates all around the world and have made multiple visits to a Christmas bar in Kansas City, where they were not shy about PDA.
And, after revealing to TIME that she retreated from the spotlight whenKim Kardashian‘s infamous leaked phone call in 2016, Taylor is going out tonight…and every night, if she wants to, thank you very much.
“Life is short,” she said. “Have adventures. Me locking myself away in my house for a lot of years—I’ll never get that time back. I’m more trusting now than I was six years ago.”
No. 5: He Knows When to Pull Back
While Travis isn’t afraid to spill some tea on his Sept. 27, 2023 podcast regarding his interactions with Taylor, he still expressed his boundaries about addressing his personal life moving forward.
“I know I brought all this attention to me,” he explained. “I did the whole friendship bracelet thing and told everyone how butthurt I was that I didn’t get to meet Taylor.” However, he continued, he didn’t plan to give a full play-by-play of their relationship.
“What’s real is that it is my personal life and I want to respect both of our lives,” he explained. “I’m enjoying life and I sure as hell enjoyed this weekend. So everything moving forward, I think me talking about sports and saying ‘alright nah’ will have to be where I keep it.”
He doubled-down on his desire to play it cool in a November 2023 interview with the Wall Street Journal.
“Everybody around me telling me: Don’t f–k this up! And me sitting here saying: Yeah—got it,” he told the outlet, before addressing the media attention. “That was the biggest thing to me: make sure I don’t say anything that would push Taylor away.”
But that doesn’t mean he’s been able to resist publicly talking about his girlfriend—crediting her for the boost in sales of his jersey and calling her “amazing” after she was booed by New England Patriots fans at a December 2023 game.
“I’ve never been a man of words,” he admitted to WSJ. “Being around her, seeing how smart Taylor is, has been f–king mind-blowing. I’m learning every day.”
No. 6: He’s Family-Oriented
Like Taylor, who is close with her parents, particularly her mother Andrea, Travis hails from a tight-knit fam, including his parents Ed and Donna Kelce.
Donna became a beloved public figure as the first mother to have two sons playing against each other in a Super Bowl, when Travis faced off against his older brother, Philadelphia Eagles center Jason Kelce, in the big game in February 2023.
“For all the stars to align and for them to get through high school and college and the pros. And for them to both play in the Pro Bowl and to play in the Super Bowl, and then for this to happen,” Donna told ET at the time. “This is just like a dream come true. I can’t express enough how special this is for the family and it’s just crazy.”
Donna, who was married to Ed for 25 years before they divorced, supported both of her sons by wearing a half-black, half-red Eagles and Chiefs jacket.
After the Super Bowl, which saw the Chiefs best the Eagles, Travis and Jason got emotional while reflecting on sharing the experience with Donna.
“The moment I saw mom is when I got really emotional,” Jason said on the brothers’ New Heights podcast. “It was so awesome…She was on top of the world for a week.”
“She was the heavyweight champ man,” Travis added. “She was on top of it, and she shined the whole time.”
No. 7: He’s Super-Close With His Brother
Like Taylor and her younger brother Austin Swift, Travis has a special bond with his older brother Jason, who inspired him to play football.
In addition to their impressive careers as NFL players, Travis and Jason launched their podcast New Heights in September 2022, a project that has only strengthened their relationship (and their bank accounts).
“What this did was gave us a scheduled two to three hour window where we have to talk to each other and we have to talk about what we’re going through, throughout the week and throughout the games,” Travis told NBC Sports in February 2023. “It’s almost been like therapy, man.”
No. 8: They Have a Mutual Friend
Sure, the pair technically never met until 2023, but there have been a few invisible strings tying them together.
Taylor and Travis both count Miles Teller as a friend, with the Top Gun: Maverick star and his wife Keleigh Sperry even being recruited by Taylor to star in the music video for “I Bet You Think About Me” off Red (Taylor’s Version) in 2021.
Travis, meanwhile, joined Miles and Chiefs quarterback Patrick Mahomes for golfing practice ahead of the American Century Championship in 2022.
Miles tweeted a photo of himself on the golf course with the athletes, writing, “Grip it and rip it.” Travis proved the bromance was real when he reposted the shot and added, “Back at it like we never left!!”
(Interestingly enough, Miles is a noted diehard Philadelphia Eagles fans, so perhaps he put in a word with Jason to broker an IRL meet-up between Travis and Taylor?)
No. 9: The Squad Is Shipping
While Taylor attended the Sept. 24, 2023 game solo, she brought an entourage of celebrity friends with her when she attended the Chiefs’ match-up against the New York Jets at New Jersey’s Metlife Stadium on Oct. 1.
She was accompanied by BFFs Blake Lively and Ryan Reynolds and his friend Hugh Jackman, as well as Sophie Turner, Sabrina Carpenter andQueer Eye‘s Antoni Porowski.
While their attendance at the game spoke volumes, even more telling was Ryan following Travis on Instagram.
No. 10: He Can Handle the Pressure
Not only has Travis played in four Super Bowls, winning three of them (NBD!), but he’s also hosted Saturday Night Live, so you know he can handle intense spotlight with ease.
That may seem trivial, but Taylor has penned several songs regarding her fear that her level of fame could prove to be too much for her romantic partner to handle. (See: “Peace” and “The Archer.”)
“It all depends who you’re with,” Taylor said in, “If they have a serious issue with it, I guess you’ll hide or whatever, but I don’t really like that, because it makes me feel like I’m running from the law or something. I don’t want to feel like a fugitive, like, ‘Oh my god, we’re having a relationship, better hide!’
“I feel like if you can be in a relationship and have it seem normal, that would be good.”
And in his WSJ interview, Travis proved he’s more than ready for the pressure that comes with being married to someone as powerful as Taylor.
“Obviously I’ve never dated anyone with that kind of aura about them…I’ve never dealt with it,” he said. “But at the same time, I’m not running away from any of it.”
“The scrutiny she gets, how much she has a magnifying glass on her, every single day, paparazzi outside her house, outside every restaurant she goes to, after every flight she gets off, and she’s just living, enjoying life,” he added. “When she acts like that I better not be the one acting all strange.”
No. 11: They Support One Another
Further proving their love is worthy of a rom-com treatment, fans were swooning after a concertgoer captured video of Taylor running into Travis’ arms and exchanging a passionate kiss after performing in Argentina in November 2023. And that was after she changed the lyrics in Karma from “the guy on the screen” to “the guy on the Chiefs,” much to Travis’ surprise as he attended alongside her father, Scott Swift.
Turning out for one another’s stadium takeovers—Taylor attended 13 Chiefs games her first season with Travis, traveling straight from her Tokyo show to make the Super Bowl—is a show of how serious their relationship is.
“I’m going to see him do what he loves, we’re showing up for each other, other people are there and we don’t care,” Taylor told TIME of their public support. “The opposite of that is you have to go to an extreme amount of effort to make sure no one knows that you’re seeing someone. And we’re just proud of each other.”
And if her presence at the NFL games annoys you, well, Taylor can’t even be bothered to have bad blood with you.
“There’s a camera, like, a half-mile away, and you don’t know where it is, and you have no idea when the camera is putting you in the broadcast, so I don’t know if I’m being shown 17 times or once,” she said. “I’m just there to support Travis. I have no awareness of if I’m being shown too much and pissing off a few dads, Brads, and Chads.”
No. 12: His Birthday
Travis was born in—are you ready for it?—1989. Screaming, crying, throwing up, etc.
13. A Special Connection
Speaking of Killa Trav’s birthday, which falls on October 5, did you know he shares his with Taylor’s late grandmother Marjorie Finlay, the subject of her song “Marjorie” off of 2020’s evermore? If we didn’t know better, we’d think this is a sign…
She’s loved him three summers now, honey, and she’s going to get ’em all.
