JoJo Siwa insists she was not a bad girl and she did not do some bad things.
And despite what ex Kath Ebbs might think, she never effed around with housemate Chris Hughes while filming Celebrity Big Brother UK.
But now that she and Ebbs have taken their final bow…
“It’s not platonic any more,” Siwa recently told The Guardian of finding a new dance partner in Hughes, “and it’s been a beautiful development, a beautiful connection, and I’m absolutely head over heels for him and he’s the same way.”
As for her relationship karma, Siwa maintains that she did not lie, she did not cheat.
Days after Ebbs shot a TikTok video April 26 detailing how they were “dumped at the after-party” of Celebrity Big Brother UK by their girlfriend of five months, “with Chris in the next room,” Siwa choreographed a response.
As the Dance Moms alum explained during an April 30 apperance on The Viall Files, “That’s not entirely the story.”
For starters, noted the 22-year-old, she had intended to save her tears—and any potential state-of-the-relationship talks—for another time, given Ebbs, 27, had said they weren’t coming to the post-season bash.
And then, “All of a sudden, we’re at the wrap party for Big Brother, I’m getting cussed out,” Siwa explained. “I understand they’re angry and they’re coming at me. But I also keep reiterating, like, ‘I’m not in a place to talk.'”
Pressed on if she was ready to exit stage left from their relationship, “I said, ‘If you ask me tomorrow, I don’t know my answer. If you ask me right now, my answer is yes,'” Siwa admitted. “That, obviously, was taken as yes.”
But Siwa insisted she didn’t view her romance as an everyone’s replacable situation.
“Kath posted a video basically alluding to Chris and I are the reasons that we broke up. That’s not the case,” she declared. “That is not the truth, and they know that and I know that.”
“I understand Chris and I are very tight,” Siwa continued, insisting at the time that she and the Love Island alum were just friends. “We have this very beautiful bond, this very beautiful connection, but don’t paint it out to look like I cheated on you with him because I did not. I will stand on that ground.”
As for Ebbs, the influencer told E! News in a May statement, “It’s really unfortunate that my relationship with this person is being reduced to untrue allegations about what happened at a party.”
Ideally, this will be the last drop the “Iced Coffee” singer spills about her past relationship.
Musing on the advice she’d give her younger self, the Nebraska native told E! News in March, “I’d be like, ‘Hey babe. You’re gonna experience a lot and not everybody needs to know. You can keep it under wraps.’ And I am a little guilty because my mom told me that.”
Whether or not Siwa heeds that guidance, she’s fine with whatever karma comes her way.
“You f–k up and you put things in public that you shouldn’t be,” the self-described “CEO of Gay Pop” explained to E! News in an exclusive interview at the 11th Annual American Reality Television Awards Nov. 18, the same day she confirmed that she’d ended her three-month romance with So You Think You Can Dance runner-up Dakayla Wilson. “Unfortunately, that’s the only way that you learn sometimes. And I’ve had to learn some hard lessons, but they’ve paid off in the end.”
And at the moment, Siwa certainly feels she’s winning.
“The happiness in my life just radiates off of me right now,” she told The Guardian. “Literally yesterday, I was massaging my cheeks; I’ve never [before] been in pain from smiling so much.”
And as she continues her search for the co-parent to her future triplets (“I always bring up the Freddie, Eddie and Teddie conversation right away in a relationship,” she told Us Weekly of her plan to welcome three babies) we’re taking a peek at Siwa’s past.
Consider this the musician’s official relationship pyramid.
Mark Bontempo
For then-17-year-old JoJo Siwa, Aug. 1, 2020, was a beautiful day to reveal the identity of her boyfriend—the man who managed to trump her crushes on Grey’s Anatomy star Patrick Dempsey and Zac Efron.
“He’s amazing and I couldn’t have imagined anyone better,” the Dance Moms alum gushed to mom Jessalynn Siwa of the musician.
But by that November, the pair were no longer in harmony.
“Mark doesn’t deserve hateful things like this,” Siwa wrote on Instagram, defending her recent ex. “He deserves to have people support him. You have NO idea about mark and I’s relationship. how much fun it was. how happy we both were, and how happy we both are. We decided it’s best for us to not be in a relationship…. that’s all.”
Kylie Prew
What started as a friendship when Siwa met Kylie Prew on a 2020 cruise, truly set sail a year later when “I got to start calling this exceptional human my Girlfriend,” the reality star shared on Instagram in February 2021.
Siwa also credited “the most amazing, wonderful, perfect, most beautiful girlfriend in the whole world,” with encouraging her to share her true self. Having already filmed content with Pride House, a collective of LGBTQ+ TikTok creators, and a TikTok of herself dancing to Lady Gaga‘s “Born This Way” anthem, the reality TV vet was debating whether she wanted to share a pic of her new “Best Gay Cousin Ever” shirt.
“I was like, ‘I kinda just want to post this picture on my Reels story,’ and she was super encouraging,'” Siwa detailed on The Tonight Show. “She was like, ‘Do it!’ And I was like, ‘All right,’ and I did it.”
Though the pair moved in together (“Looking back, all of us are like, ‘That should’ve never happened,” Siwa admitted on the Call Her Daddy podcast in April 2024), they split that October, reuniting for one final dance in 2022.
Prew is still her “good friend,” Siwa told Call Her Daddy‘s Alex Cooper, noting they talk “all the time.”
Katie Mills
“I am not single and I don’t want to mingle,” Siwa shared on a March 2022 episode of the Rachel Uncensored Podcast. “No, I’m a loyal lady.”
She’d played the field, she continued, and snagged herself a catch in Katie Mills.
“Listen, I went around the block,” Siwa teased. “I tried a lot, and I learned a lot and I’m very, very, very happy where I am now.”
But safe to say her romance with the TikToker wasn’t all fun and games.
When Siwa posted a March 2023 clip calling out “love bombing” and “clout chasing” behavior from unnamed exes, Mills dropped a few bombs of her own.
“I’m done being quiet,” she said in her own TikTok that month. “You hold a lot of power, you and your platform. How can you tell someone you love them and ghost them the next day, and then post all over the internet that we’re clout chasers and love bombers? I don’t get it.”
What’s more, she continued, Siwa was the one to make their romance public, while Mills asked permission before posting any glimpses into their love. And, stressed Mills, “I have the text receipts to prove it, so don’t come at me.”
Avery Cyrus
Safe to say Avery Cyrus—the YouTuber Siwa briefly dated in 2022—hasn’t claimed a spot at the top of her pyramid.
When they celebrated their 12-day anniversary, the singer said life together was a D.R.E.A.M. “Our personalities mash together so well, and I think that’s something that is really important,” Siwa told E! News that October. “She is so positive. She makes me feel so good. I believe that I make her feel so good.”
But the vibes changed that December. Two days after Cyrus confirmed they’d ended their romance, Siwa cryptically called out a person who she said took advantage of her fame.
“I got used, for views and for clout,” she griped in a Decemer 2022 video that her mom shared to her Instagram Story. “I got tricked into being told I was loved and I got f–king played.”
For Cyrus, though, their dalliance wasn’t a game.
“From my perspective, me and JoJo left on great terms and are still friends,” she exclusively told E! News in a statement. “The relationship was very real, and I have nothing but love for JoJo and her family.”
Dakayla Wilson
Dakayla Wilson may have placed second on season 18 of So You Think You Can Dance, but she was No. 1 in judge Siwa’s heart. “Girlfriend taught a dance class so i took a weekend off of being JoJo Siwa and became her All Star Assistant,” the “Karma” singer gushed in an August TikTok, hard launching their relationship.
For several months, Wilson proved to be the perfect dance partner. Siwa shared that the teen was “on board” with her plan to have triplets in the near future and she eagerly dropped $30,000 on her 19th birthday celebration in Hawaii.
“We are very madly in love,” the former Nickelodeon star gushed to E! News. “She is a very, very special girl. I’m very lucky to have her in my life.”
But it turned out that Wilson wasn’t all Siwa wanted for Christmas.
“We have gone our separate ways, but she is an amazing girl,” Siwa told People in November 2024. “And I got my own fun holiday plans, and I know she’s got her family that she’s spent the holidays with.”
Kath Ebbs
Siwa confirmed her relationship with Kath Ebbs in January 2025, calling the Australian content creator her “girlfriend.”
Ebbs also returned the love, posting photos of the pair kissing that same month. They wrote on Instagram, “Bit of queer joy for ya feed today!!”
However, just three months later, Ebbs revealed they called it quits during the wrap-party for Celebrity Big Brother UK.
“I was told that there are confused feelings there—do with that what you will,” Ebbs detailed in an April 2025 TikTok, “and that they had realized in the house that I wasn’t the person that they wanted to spend the foreseeable future with.”
But Siwa insisted this wasn’t an everyone’s replaceable situation despite her close bond with fellow housemate Chris Hughes.
Rather, during filming, “I was now in my own thoughts away from everyone that I know, away from outside opinions, away from everything,” Siwa reflected during an April 28 appearance on ITV’s This Morning alongside Hughes. “And I sat with myself and from that point on, I really realized things that I was okay with in my life that I should never have been okay with in the first place.”
Chris Hughes
Though Siwa didn’t land atop the proverbial pyramid during her stint on Celebrity Big Brother UK, she emerged from her time filming the show in the spring of 2025 with a better prize: A new partner in her fellow competitor Chris Hughes.
“Christopher is my favorite thing to talk about,” she gushed of the Love Island alum to E! News’ Keltie Knight at the grand opening of Universal’s Epic Universe May 21. “I shouldn’t call him a thing—he’s my favorite person to talk about.”
And, yet, she kept reiterating, they were just friends. Until they weren’t.
“It’s not platonic any more,” Siwa acknowledged to The Guardian in a June 2025 interview, “and it’s been a beautiful development, a beautiful connection, and I’m absolutely head over heels for him and he’s the same way.”
As for how she’d define her sexuality, she still feels that “queer” best “encompasses how I am, and who I am.” But she’s a love the person, not the label type.
“There’s a lot of different sexual identities,” Siwa noted. “I think there’s nothing more beautiful than somebody discovering themselves.”
